This not makeup or beauty related, but it was come to my attention that some people do not see a blessing when they are given one. That blessing is a child a baby to call their own, it seems these day a lot of teens and young adults are getting pregnant. Which i am not saying its a bad thing, if you are mature and take of your responsibility than more power to you. Instead, I see expecting mother's complaining about how they can't do anything fun or they don't want to get fat and they just want to be skinny again. I've even seen some talk about the fact that they can't smoke weed anymore, Honestly what kind person would only care about themselves when they are bringing a new life into this world? It upsets me to see that girls would actually be that senseless about this kind of thing. Girls like that need to face reality and realize its not about them anymore, it about the health of the baby. If you are going to complain about all the stuff you can't do and wish you could do live you're old lifestyle, you are NOT ready to because a mother. If you had half a brain to realize the bigger picture you would not be saying those selfless things.
Which brings me to my next problem, if you are like this now, what makes you think that you are going to be ready to dedicate your time and all your focus on your child? You're headed down the path of being an unfit mother if you can't stop thinking about yourself. NEWS FLASH, you don't get to be the hottest happy go lucky care free girl at the party anymore. You become MOM! When you're young that doesn't mean you have to be a boring mom, you can still have you're fun but make sure that your son or daughter comes first, make sure you are setting a good example and you are proud to say you are parent. A child is never a mistake, everything happens for a reason, like i always say God would not lead you down a path you can't follow. In some cases it may work out having a child young and still be raised in a good home. For others its just better to make someone less fortunate and can't have a baby's dream come true.
There are so many women today struggling to have children and so desperately want to full there home with all the love they could give. Girls today are having them like it is no tomorrow and don't even really care and complain when there is a women somewhere crying themselves to sleep because they cannot conceive. So you say a blessing and a miracle for some and an inconvenience for others. I've seen how bad it can hurt someone when they are having problems with having a baby and i tell you it is very heart breaking. When you know that there are so many unwanted pregnancies by teens and young adults and all a women is asking for is a chance. a chance to be a mother, a chance to experience what it is like to hold there baby for the first time. Even if that baby is not biologically theirs, it will always be there child and they will give more love than you can ever imagine and they deserve it. This goes out to all the excepting mother younger or older to never complain about weight gain or have comments about how inconvenient it is and how you wish you could still do the things you were doing before you got pregnant. Because what you are basically saying is you're baby is a mistake and there are no mistakes. Every child deserves a fair chance at a good life.
Which brings me to my next problem, if you are like this now, what makes you think that you are going to be ready to dedicate your time and all your focus on your child? You're headed down the path of being an unfit mother if you can't stop thinking about yourself. NEWS FLASH, you don't get to be the hottest happy go lucky care free girl at the party anymore. You become MOM! When you're young that doesn't mean you have to be a boring mom, you can still have you're fun but make sure that your son or daughter comes first, make sure you are setting a good example and you are proud to say you are parent. A child is never a mistake, everything happens for a reason, like i always say God would not lead you down a path you can't follow. In some cases it may work out having a child young and still be raised in a good home. For others its just better to make someone less fortunate and can't have a baby's dream come true.
There are so many women today struggling to have children and so desperately want to full there home with all the love they could give. Girls today are having them like it is no tomorrow and don't even really care and complain when there is a women somewhere crying themselves to sleep because they cannot conceive. So you say a blessing and a miracle for some and an inconvenience for others. I've seen how bad it can hurt someone when they are having problems with having a baby and i tell you it is very heart breaking. When you know that there are so many unwanted pregnancies by teens and young adults and all a women is asking for is a chance. a chance to be a mother, a chance to experience what it is like to hold there baby for the first time. Even if that baby is not biologically theirs, it will always be there child and they will give more love than you can ever imagine and they deserve it. This goes out to all the excepting mother younger or older to never complain about weight gain or have comments about how inconvenient it is and how you wish you could still do the things you were doing before you got pregnant. Because what you are basically saying is you're baby is a mistake and there are no mistakes. Every child deserves a fair chance at a good life.
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